my thoughts on soulmates
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This is an interesting topic and everyone has their own opinion. Some people believe in soulmates and some people don’t. And some people just don’t know what to think. You guys already know I like going beyond the simple stuff and exploring new depths. Here are my thoughts on soulmates.
Before I get into this, I just wanna say that I do believe in reincarnation and past lives and stuff like that. The reason why I’m saying that is because as i’m explaining my perspective, knowing this will make it easier to understand. My perspective might be a little bit different from what you normally hear but here goes 🤷♂️.
So, first off, do I believe in soulmates? Yes, 100%.
I think there are certain people who are meant to enter our lives for a very specific reason. These people come into our lives and they change us in positive ways.
Here are the different types of soulmates that I believe in: best friends, romantic partners, and they could even be family members. Yes, even your grandpa can be a soulmate as well. You’re probably like “wtf how he’s not even near the same age as me.” Well listen here, bodies age but souls are ageless. Because of the role they have to play in your life (for example the role of your grandparents) they might not always be able to do things with you that you would do with friends your age, but whenever you need guidance, they can provide that for you if these are people you really and truly connect with.
The point is, these people are meant to be in your life and they have been strategically placed either near you or far away and you are meant to cross paths eventually.
Since I believe in reincarnation and past lives, I believe soulmates are people you have known throughout your other lifetimes. That’s why it feels so familiar when you meet them again in this lifetime; because you already know them.
You ever meet somebody and you instantly click and when you’re talking to them for the first time it feels like everything’s falling into place? That’s kinda like the souls connecting and saying “Kiddha, looks like we found each other again 🙌🏼.”
Here’s one thing to understand: soulmates don’t have to be in your life forever. BUT soulmates always find their way back to each other, but not all of them might (considering you probably have multiple soulmates). And another thing, your relationships with your soulmates aren’t always necessarily going to be perfect. You might come across a soulmate but you might not be meant to be together in this lifetime. And that’s okay. Keep reading.
Aight, now let’s talk about the romantic partner soulmates (cause I know that’s what most of you are actually here for lmao 😂 🙄 dw i’m low-key here for that too 👀).
I think that there’s only one person that you're actually meant to be with. I guess you can call this person your “true love.” If you haven’t found this person yet, then you will. You just gotta remember that these things take time. And they’re probably figuring themselves out just like you are. But one day, you will both cross paths when the timing is right.
If you’re meant to be with someone then you’ll definitely end up with them. There’s no denying that. You will find each other no matter where you are in the world. Soulmates are drawn to each other and it’s just hard for them to be apart. If you’ve ever heard or read the tragic Punjabi love stories of Heer Ranjha, Sassi Punnu, Mirza Sahiba, or Sohni Mahiwal then you’ll know that those people couldn’t be kept apart. Spoiler alert: they all ended up dying cause they couldn’t live without the other. Clearly this is not meant to be that tragic lol but kinda gets the point across 🤷♂️
If you really wanna find your soulmate, then I think it starts with you being open-minded and open-hearted as well. You have to be receptive and willing to let people come in to your life. A lot of the times people think they have found their soulmate when they just click. But sometimes that might not be the case. It may take some time before you click with a person. Or you might initially start off as friends and then get into a relationship after. Either way, they could still be your soulmate.
But one thing’s for sure, there’s a soulmate for everybody who has an open heart and is willing to connect with others. And like I said before, you probably have many soulmates walking around on this planet. A portion of them have the potential to be some of your closest friends and a portion of them have the potential to be lifelong romantic partners. The important thing to remember is that if it doesn’t work out with one soulmate in this lifetime then that’s alright cause it probably wasn’t meant to be (but maybe in another lifetime). And it’s also fine because you probably have another soulmate who will find you and maybe you’re supposed to be with that soulmate this time around.